Saturday, July 30, 2011

Let Her Bare Bones Show

Treat a home's overall shell as one uniform backdrop, whether it be its exposed brick walls, original wood beams, distressed wood flooring or original plastered walls. Its rustic charm will lend itself to linen or burlap window treatments, iron acccents, cream upholstery and other reclaimed furniture pieces. 

In love with the exposed brick walls and wood beams. Absolutely dreamy.
(countryliving.com)

The linen tablecloth, distressed French chairs and understated lighting blend in perfectly with the pre-existing stone walls and wood beams. 
(belgianpearls.blogspot.com)

Exposed wood beams and white wood paneled walls and ceiling invite beautiful light into this room.
(countryliving.com)

The natural wood is a gorgeous backdrop to this elegant silver and cream dining room.
(housetohome.co.uk)


An inexpensive and creative way to add personality to a distressed wood floor without adding a floor covering. 
(from-london-with-love.com)

So serene. Kudos to preserving the room's natural personality.
(google.com)

Restored wood bannisters and beams provide character in an otherwise stale two-story room.

What Kind of Parent Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?


I had lunch today with a very dear friend. She is 38 weeks pregnant and absolutely ready to pop. But, unlike myself when I was pregnant, she is all stomach. Just a big ball with tiny little arms and legs sticking out from it. I applaud her but find it totally unfair. {Love you, Ed.} I digress. 

Anyway, with my son quietly sitting in his highchair—a rare occurrence—she asked me if I would consider myself to be the parent I had always wanted to be. Wow, I thought. What a loaded question! A question I wasn't exactly prepared to answer.


As a child, I always dreamed of parenting the opposite of my parents. Not because they were terrible parents—they are wonderful and I love them dearly—but because I'm more of a spitfire and want to encourage my children to be the same way. Where my parents were strict, I wanted to be lenient. Where they were too cautious, I wanted to be free-spirited. Where they were boring, I wanted to be exciting. I had it all figured out. Well, at least until my son arrived. I am strict. I am an advocat of timeouts. I demand manners. And I don't put up with toddler rebellion. How did this happen? Don't get me wrong. My son and I have a ball each and every day, but every once and again he gets a wild hair and does something outlandish like swat one of our labs with a flyswatter or throw his full sippy cup at my head. Note: Both offenses having been addressed as unacceptable behavior.

And to complicate things, you co-parent in a marriage. So not only do you have to figure out the parent you want to be but also align your expectations and hopes with those of your spouse. Why didn't we cover this in pre-marriage counseling! 

So naturally, like any responsible parent, when I needed to find out what kind of parent I had become, I turned to a parenting.com online test. It's totally legit, right? {sigh}.

After answering a slew of surprisingly difficult parenting questions, the results were in. See how I fared.

When it comes to Shaping Their Character, You're: Laissez-Faire
You fit the classic laissez-fare parent profile; you think it's important that your kids develop and grow in the way that they choose, and you don't want to set any kind of expectations for them. You may hope that your children learn from your example, but you're not interested in spelling out behavioral guidelines or enforcing them to follow rules. And when it comes to family decisions on everything from vacations to deciding on a name for a new baby brother, it's essential that your kids' views are taken into account.

When It Comes to Making the Rules You're: Authoritative
When it comes to setting the rules and expectations with your kids, you're the grownup and know what's best. And since this is the case, it's not really necessary to always explain the logic or rationale behind your rules and expectations. You're also scrupulously fair: you do your best to apply standards equally to each child. Parents who take this approach believe that it's important for parents to make decisions for their kids and that, generally, rules and expectations shouldn't be open to discussion.

When It Comes to Enforcing Discipline You're: Firm But Fair
In general, you take an assertive approach to discipline. You think it's best, since being direct lets kids know what's expected of them. At the same time, parents like you indicated that children should be allowed some room to be free to explore; you're happy for your kids to experiment and take chances (within reason), as long as they respect and obey their parents. There's no purpose served by being overly strict.

WHAT? Is it me or do these results display three different parenting styles ... conflicting styles at that? Serves me right for taking this silly test. 

I've gotta run. My sweet little man just curled up in my lap, gave me his favorite train followed by a big ol' wet one. I must be doing something right :)

Watermelon: A Summer Treat We Love to Eat

Nothing says summer like a sweet, savory slice of watermelon. Its culinary eye candy. Its a thirst quencher. Its a tasty accessory to any summer meal. And its possibilities are endless. However, the task of devouring it all may seem a bit daunting, so here are a few creative ways to make your watermelon stretch a little bit further.

{Watermelon Tomato Salad with Feta Cheese}
Ingredients:
2 tbsp olive oil
1 tbsp white wine vinegar
2 tbsp chopped mint
5 ounces cherry tomatoes in different sizes and colors
16 ounces watermelon, cut into chunks
feta, crumbled

Directions:
1. Make the dressing by mixing the vinegar, olive oil and mint and season to taste if needed.
2. Put the tomatoes (keep smaller ones whole and cut larger ones in two) and watermelons in bowl. Pour over the dressing and leave to stand for at least 10 minutes so the fruit can absorb the juice.
3. Crumble the feta over the top and serve.
(junglefrog-cooking.com)

{Watermelon Burgers}
Watermelon is not a vegetable, obviously, but it’s so wonderful when grilled that it must be included here. Grill a watermelon slice, and it dries out and sobers up, losing its sloppy sweetness, and it takes surprisingly well to savory accompaniments. Add a slice of good melting cheese, a hard roll, a few pickles and a lettuce leaf, and look out: watermelon burgers.

Time: 30 minutes
1 small watermelon
1/4 cup olive oil
1 tablespoon minced onion
Salt and black pepper
4 ounces mozzarella, Monterey Jack, Gruyère or other melting cheese, grated or sliced.

Directions:
1. Heat a charcoal or gas grill to moderately high heat and put the rack about 4 inches from the flame. Cut the watermelon lengthwise, into halves or quarters, depending on the size of the melon. From each length, cut 11/2-inch-thick slices; remove the rind from each slice. If there are black seeds, use a fork to remove as many of them as you can without beating the flesh up too much.

2. Mix the olive oil with the onion and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Brush or rub the mixture all over the watermelon slices. Grill or broil for about 5 minutes on each side. The flesh should be lightly caramelized and dried out a bit. Sprinkle each slice with cheese, cover the grill and cook just until the cheese melts, about a minute.

3. Serve on buns, toast or hard rolls with the usual burger fixings.
(nytimes.com)

{Watermelon Cucumber Salad with Honey and Mint}

Ingredients: 
2 cups watermelon, cubed1 ½ cups cucumber, peeled and cubed
2 green onions, greens and partial whites sliced
1 tbsp fresh mint, chopped
2 tsp olive oil
1 tsp honey
1/8 tsp sea salt
Pinch of black pepper

Directions:
In a bowl, combine the watermelon, cucumber, green onions and mint. Add the olive oil and honey. Stir to combine. Sprinkle on the salt and pepper. You can eat it right away or refrigerate it for up to a couple days. As it sits more juice will form from the melon and cucumber. Serves 3 to 4.
(fakefoodfree.com)

{Watermelon Frosty}
Yields: 2 servings
Ingredients:
2 1/4 cups frozen watermelon cubes
1/2+ cup water
2 tbsp maple syrup
1 large lemon, squeezed (lime juice also works very well! use 2 limes)
1 fresh banana
*Optional: 2 shots of tequila (or sub with more water or fruit juice)
*Also optional: a few dashes of cayenne powder in the blender or over top when you serve!
Garnish: a few slices of watermelon - with rind on - frozen.



Directions:
Blend and Pour. Garnish with frozen watermelon/rind slices. Serve! Enjoy.
(kblog.lunchobox.com)

{Watermelon Mint Pops}
Yields: approximately 10 ice pops (depending on the size of your cups, you may yield more or less)
Prep time: 10 minutes + 6 hrs. freeze
Allergy info: soy-free, dairy-free, gluten-free

For the puree:
1 (4 to 5-lb.) organic seedless watermelon
1/4 teaspoon kosher salt
1/4 cup organic sugar
10 whole fresh mint leaves, washed and dried

For the pops:
12 paper cups or tall parfait glasses (tall shot/dessert glasses)
Plastic wrap or foil
12 ice pop sticks

Directions:
Remove colored flesh from the watermelon rind. Discard seeds, dice watermelon flesh. In the bowl of a food processor add diced watermelon, salt and sugar; pulse until smooth. Place a fine mesh strainer over a large bowl. Pour watermelon mixture into strainer. Using a spoon or spatula, press watermelon mixture through strainer; discard any seed pieces and large pieces of pulp. 

Place one mint leaf in the bottom of each cup. Pour fruit mixture evenly into cups; cover tightly with plastic wrap. Using a sharp paring knife, make a small slit in the middle of the plastic wrap. Poke ice pop sticks through plastic wrap.

Place cups in freezer. Freeze at least 6 hours; serve frozen. Store in the freezer, covered, up to 3 weeks.
(wickedgooddinner.blogspot.com)

{Watermelon Cake}
Need a quick way to spice up the table but don't have time to do anything elaborate? This is as easy as it gets. Cut off the end of the watermelon. Scoop out small watermelon balls with a cookie dough scoop and set aside. Next, cut a 4"thick circular piece of watermelon. Cut it into pie pieces, just as you would a cake. Leave the cut pieces in place and delicately stack the watermelon balls on top. Garnish with mint if you wish. Tada!

{Watermelon Keg & Watermelon Sours}
>>Watermelon Keg

Simply scoop out the watermelon and use its contents for any of the recipes listed above.

Cut a hole to fit a keg shank on the far left side of the melon. Insert the shank.

Once that is in place, turn the watermelon on its bottom, with the shank pointed downward, and fill with your drink of choice ... perhaps the delicious Watermelon Sours noted below. Et voila!
(hitherandthither.com)

>>Watermelon Sours
Time: 10 minutes
Yields: 10-12 drinks

Directions: Puree 4 cups of watermelon chunks; strain. Stir in 4 ounces Alize Red Passio or other fruit-flavored liqueur, 8 ounces gin and 2 cups sour mix. Add sparkling rose before serving. Garnish with lime.

(foodnetwork.com)